tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1211345926877098291.post5859399355814265885..comments2023-10-18T15:17:39.921+01:00Comments on The Love Chest: SEX.Aderonke Adebanjohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13275042854585650789noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1211345926877098291.post-30596033242445365332012-06-30T09:36:40.874+01:002012-06-30T09:36:40.874+01:00Ahhh my favourite topic SEX lol...am feeling this ...Ahhh my favourite topic SEX lol...am feeling this post. First of all I do think its important that if you are going to get married, that you are compatible in satisfying each others needs. OK fair do's for those who hold the strong views of NO sex before marriage kudos to them its their believes and with conviction it shall remain so.<br /><br />I know so many relationships that fall by the way side eventually because one partner is and was not sexually fulfilled or in tune with their partner. This happens more often with the guy but am beginning to notice that the woman of today wants her man to take her to the sexual dome of purrrrrrrring as well. <br /><br />I think its important that even a kiss is passionate enough to send tingles down both your bodies. People are sometimes afraid to utter and express to their significant other what their sexual needs are. I mean how many men have fantasies??....I say 99.9% yet in some or most cases they would dare not approach the subject with their wife, partner girlfriend so therefore keep stum.<br /><br />I mean there isnt a definite time frame for getting married but when you meet someone, if you are having sex before saying the I do's, you should have both got a sense of spiritual connection between your interaction and sensuality, if by then you aint feeling it then have the TALK. <br /><br />Sex or the lack of Sex breaks up homes, the unsatisfied will deviate eventually or maybe they wont. Men need sex to feel close to a woman fact and a woman needs affection before she even contemplates sex, so here you have two very different requirements and unless in your partnership there is communication and real understanding SEX will always be just that!!<br /><br />gosh thats me putting in my two cents lolBareFoot Countessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16751704604846550757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1211345926877098291.post-62860735785279950012012-06-21T01:13:25.731+01:002012-06-21T01:13:25.731+01:00Sex before marriage is simply wrong,I believe in p...Sex before marriage is simply wrong,I believe in passionate Love. When you really Love someone, everything you do is at its climax.As a Boxer I know how hard it is to wait for months before a fight. The long training, sleepless nights, the dreams of victory, the side comments. I must tell you that all these things come together on fight night and make you go through some experiences in the real fight that you can not really explain in words to people. So if a couple who have waited say our sex is good, I am sure that the couple who have not waited would say the same thing but have no idea of what the couple that have waited are talking about. The prior to marriage couple think its all that sparring they have been doing. The don't realise that the couple that have waited are experiencing something words can not describe. I am among the waiting list, I by GOD'S GRACE would wait till I get my Wife in the "ring" and I know things would happen that I can not describe.GOD'S GREATESThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13354428070013350755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1211345926877098291.post-75256013693327166022012-05-14T15:16:59.907+01:002012-05-14T15:16:59.907+01:00Refer to comment above. If she doesn't know wh...Refer to comment above. If she doesn't know what she's missing, she'll be that woman who says about sex, "It's...nice...."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1211345926877098291.post-6199002024146113152012-05-13T20:24:00.147+01:002012-05-13T20:24:00.147+01:00Hehehe. Are you saying you don't think it'...Hehehe. Are you saying you don't think it's possible for a woman to be sexually satisfied with her husband if he was a virgin when they got married??Aderonke Adebanjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13275042854585650789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1211345926877098291.post-24791122019212187542012-05-13T09:20:16.697+01:002012-05-13T09:20:16.697+01:00Romantic notions! First of all, it's not that...Romantic notions! First of all, it's not that hard to find out if a man can get an erection (and can we be adult and say "erection"?). In most able-bodied, hot-blooded young men, it doesn't take much to make one and if you're really that curious, all you have to do is throw an eyeball in the right direction o figure it out! But that's not what you're curious about. You want to know if your future partner will be any good in bed. Because you want that mind blowing experience you've been reading in your romance novels. Well, you'll never find out by asking. And if you're dating a virgin, odds are, you won't. Not for a very, very long time, if ever. You can take that one to the bank. If you're not willing to try it out beforehand, then settle for the likelihood that you won't be sexually satisfied OR the likelihood that the guy you've been holding out on is cutting his teeth elsewhere, which is the only way you'll get that orgasm you've been waiting your whole life for.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1211345926877098291.post-9999820114891162152012-05-09T21:24:22.258+01:002012-05-09T21:24:22.258+01:00Nice one CalabarBoy! Thank you for sharing your th...Nice one CalabarBoy! Thank you for sharing your thoughts!Aderonke Adebanjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13275042854585650789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1211345926877098291.post-79440393950721306952012-05-05T14:30:22.243+01:002012-05-05T14:30:22.243+01:00If we assume that Sex in marriage is the most impo...If we assume that Sex in marriage is the most important thing, then we can be bugged down with sexual compatibility. However, having been married for a couple of years now, I know it is not. I married in my early 30s and we both never had sex prior to marriage, so we knew practically nothing about the matter. But because we have built a solid friendship, it was easy (very easy) to explore, fumble, laugh and play about the matter. We got more information where we needed to and explored together. I ask questions on what exactly she wants in sex and try to meet her every demand. <br /><br />Some might have a different experience with this, I can understand that. Some prefer to know what they are committing to before they get in since sex is the most crucial bonding factor for them. But I just wanted to remind such that marriage is not the saying of vows before God and people, or the leaving of family to cleave to another. That is the outward expressions of culture. Marriage is the act of sex. Every time you have sex, you are marrying a person. So if you are tasting people like the products of a groundnut hawker, you are the legal partner of many folks. <br /><br />I have found that the most potent factor that makes all things beautiful in a marriage is friendship. Cultivate it and it will beautify your sex life. If your husband is your best friend, even his tiny Kookoo will give you extensive pleasure. Even your wife's bare chest will be a fluffy pillow for your head.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com