Which One Are You?
Guy: When are we coming to your wedding to chop jollof rice or are you going to be loving love until the end of time?
Me: Awwwww! Soon by God’s grace, once my good man comes along :D
Guy: [And this is where it gets deep] Hmm! I have heard countless women say that every day for a long time. Some are in their lates forties. Good men don’t come along. They are not hidden somewhere. They are already in the same environs. Science cannot be applied to a human activity that is an art. Broadly, there are two women: “Relationship Women” and “Complicated Women”. Some women naturally gravitate towards a relationship and instinctively know how to navigate the dating process, identify suitable partners while weeding out the unsuitable, and skillfully manage the journey towards a monogamous relationship. These “Relationship Girls” know what they need, what they have to offer, and if you talk to them, it’s usually quite sensible stuff. Then, there are the “Complicated Women”. Always a doubt, a question, a hesitation. Nobody’s funny enough, smart enough, or cool enough. It never feels quite right for them and with them. We all go through our phases of being complicated and dating complicated people too. But some never come out of it. It becomes their way of life and they don’t realize it. The point? Know which one you are. That said, marriage is not for everyone. It is not the be all and end all. In many cases, being single and contended can be so much better than being miserable with the wrong spouse.
He made REALLY good points! So ladies, honestly ask yourself which one you are. Any thoughts on what he said?
Guys, what do you think?