Asking A Guy Out...
Asa sings "Will you be my man and I will be your woman everyday". If you ask me, she is straight up asking dude out! Lol. Is that a bad thing though? I mean, most women are still very traditional and as far as I know, guys are HUNTERS. That's they way they are wired. They want to experience the chase and "catch" their woman. But it seems these days that some women are taking matters into their own hands and as one of my dear friends says "The hunter has become the hunted"! LOL.
I believe very strongly in the HUNTER theory. I believe that men live for the chase. There's something about knowing you did all you could to woo and win her over and you did! There must be something very rewarding about that, right guys? It's kinda like the guys who said they didn't need help finding love and so they didn't see the need to attend the Speed Dating event. So, I worry about this 21st Century movement of women asking guys out. I truly think (and guys please correct me if I'm wrong) that a guy will think less of a woman that asks him out cos he didn't do any work to get her. There's a difference between giving a guy the green light and actually asking him out. But what is that difference? Guys, please tell us the truth, should we just stick to our traditional roles and let men continue the chase? If a woman asks you for your phone number, calls you, and invites you out for a drink, how would you feel about that? Is that giving the green light or too much light? Lol!
Ladies, what do you think? Can you ask a guy out? Have you asked a guy out?
P.S: The picure is a bit overboard (no pun intended) but you get the point. LOL!