Do People Change in Marriage?
I always say that people SHOULD expect their spouse to change in marriage. We are changing everyday as individuals. Think about it. Are you the same person you were a year ago? I know I'm not the same person I was a year ago. I've changed! We experience life and we change and evolve and that change won't stop happening when you get married.
That's one angle. The other is what happens when you thought you knew the person you married and then post-wedding, they do something and you think "this can't possibly be the person I married"! My friend says "women see what they want to see" and I also believe that men are not very good pretenders. After a while, he will show you who he really is before the wedding and so the choice is yours. Interestingly, I don't hear men talk about women changing in marriage. So, please guys, do you find that women also change in marriage?
Change is inevitable. I think it's what we do with the change and how we handle it that really counts. So, I do wanna know though: Do you think people REALLY change in marriage or do they just show who they really are?