She's Just Not That Into You
Ladies, help the brothers out, please! What are some gestures you display when you're just not that into a guy. Guys, what signs, in terms, of body language do you look out for? Can you tell if a woman is into you or not?
This is how it usually goes: Guy approaches girl, girl scans guy for information (I read that it takes 7 seconds to determine if you're attracted to someone. Sometimes though some woman have scanned all the way to the altar to determine if he's "husband material" LOL.), if she's not interested, defence wall goes up, and most times, guy has no idea and this equals an unpleasant experience for the girl and a not-so-successful "catch" for the guy. At the Speed Dating event, for example, one particular lady looked completely uninterested. Perhaps she had scanned the room and realized that her "type" was not there. Lol. Cos, man, she kept frowning, would barely look at the guys during each "date". It was as if someone had forced her to come. Guess she didn't realize that the risk you take in attending such an event includes not always finding your "type" and that you have to be a good sport cos while you might not find what you're looking for romantically, you might make some good friends.
So, ladies please spill the beans, when you're just not that into him, how do you let him know either directly (by telling him straight up) or indirectly (through your body language)?